I still remember the first time my kids and I painted cabinets together—Peanut and Rosie, aged ten and eight, tracking tiny flecks of paint like confetti down the hallway as the neighborhood moms waved from their porches. Mornings are a choreography of lunchboxes, soccer carpool, and science projects spread across the counter, so my kitchen has to be both cozy and forgiving. I’ve borrowed a trick from a charming remodel I once loved in a quaint California cottage to make our space feel calm and practical without losing style, and that blend of family life and design is exactly where…